Failure to adapt
I’m quitting Girl Scouts. That’s right. I haven’t even led my first troop meeting yet and I’m throwing in the towel. Why? Paperwork and patience. I don’t have enough of one for the other. I have spent about 9 hours in training so far and can honestly say I found maybe two of those useful. I understand that with an organization this large (especially since our council is merging with two others), there are lots of bases to be covered. What I don’t understand is why I needed to go to a three hour meeting tonight that provided no more knowledge than what I already had through questions, books, and the internet. I just plain don’t want to make time for this kind of thing over and over again. It’s pointless. Kind of like this entry. I also don’t understand why the meeting facilitator got huffy when I told her I had to leave after she had spent the past hour telling “the good ‘ol days” stories. I’m a little bummed about it, b/c the actual part with the girls? I think that would’ve been really nice. Scary, but nice. So, I think I’m going to spend a little more time volunteering at the kids’ school. This is the first year that time (and toddler) will allow me to do actual volunteer work in the school building and not just bring work home! Yaaay! So you see? Something positive did come out of this in a way.
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Okay, I have to admit that the first time we joined Girl Scouts … I quit too. I had no choice but to be a leader if X joined. I wasn’t ready for that. I still am not, frankly, which is why I only volunteer with GS here and there. Anyhow, good for you for realizing what’s right for you.
Posted by: Jodi | September 7th, 2007 20:06
You just did what you needed to do. Hate meetings too by the way:)
Posted by: Don't Eat My Buchela! | September 8th, 2007 08:16
You just did what you needed to do. Hate meetings too!
Posted by: Don't Eat My Buchela! | September 8th, 2007 08:18
Ugh, who gives a shit about the good old days? Three hours is a huge chunk of time for initial meetings! Save some of that crap for another day or something. Not many of us have three hours we’re willing to give up in a day to something unproductive or that which doesn’t hold our interest.
Yay for out-of-house volunteering!
Posted by: Teresa | September 8th, 2007 12:33
they should know better than to have such long (and non-productive) meetings. every second is precious when you’re a mom.
but good for you on not losing sight of what your goal was and finding another way to volunteer!
Posted by: J. Fergie | September 10th, 2007 09:32
Well all of that sounds incredibly annoying. You would have been great had it been a more ideal situation though. I’m sure you’ll have plenty to do helping out at school. One of those things I look forward to once my kiddos start.
Posted by: Anna | September 11th, 2007 17:24